01 October 2017
The Rev. Peter M. Carey St. Martin in the Fields Evensong ~ 1 October 2017
23 June 2008
Advice for those in the Discernment Process - from "Ember Days"
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From "Ember Days" Blog...
Now that my discernment process for ordained ministry is behind me (and the ministry itself in front of me), I thought I'd offer my advice -- for whatever it might be worth -- to those who are in the process, or at least that part of the process that begins with admission to postulancy and ends with the imposition of episcopal hands. Basically, here's what I learned by doing a lot of stuff wrong.
(1) Have a regular and reliable connection with someone on the Commission on Ministry.
(2) Make sure the expectations for your "program of preparation" are explicit and in writing.
(3) Have an understanding with the Bishop (and other relevant parties) about how the General Ordination Examination will be used.
(4) Be persistent.
(5) Keep your Bishop informed.
(6) Let your sponsoring parish see you from time to time.
(7) Have a copy of the canons handy.
(8) Keep good records.
(9) Keep reminding yourself that the telos of this process is not getting ordained; it's being a priest.
Read the post HERE
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(and one more from me...
If you don't know what telos means, look it up before you go to seminary!
05 January 2008
Article in Lynchburg (VA) Paper: Pair of Priests

I went to seminary with Todd and Diane Vie at Virginia Theological Seminary. They are wonderful people and great priests. I ran across this article about them in the Lynchburg (VA) News & Advance Newspaper. You can also read it HERE, and here.
Have a great day!
Peace be with you,
Peter+
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The Revs. Todd and Diane Vie followed different paths to the priesthood.
Diane, now assistant priest at St. John’s Episcopal Church, first heard her calling in 1998 while on a mission trip to Honduras.
Todd, her husband of 15 years, heard his call later that same year, quite unexpectedly.
“Never in my wildest dreams did I ever think I’d be called, which made it all the more enjoyable,” says Todd, now associate priest at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church.
At the time, both Todd and Diane worked for a Chicago insurance company, where they met in 1988.
Soon after hearing their respective calls, the couple started the process of entering the priesthood, and they’ve been in it together ever since.
Two years after the process began, Todd and Diane were approved as postulants, meaning they’d received parish and diocesan endorsements to go on to seminary.
They both quit their insurance jobs on the same day and enrolled in Alexandria’s Virginia Theological Seminary in the fall of 2004.
“The tricky thing for us was we were going through it at the same time,” Diane says. “It was very unusual in the diocese. They couldn’t decide what to do with us.”
The Virginia Theological Seminary is a three-year program. The couple says the first year is mostly academic work, while the second and third years involve an assignment at a field parish. Todd and Diane were assigned to the same field parish.
“A lot of people at seminary are married, and a lot of them have families,” Todd says. “From my own viewpoint, I think we had an advantage in that we understood what the other was going through. We understood the challenges. We understood the stress and the things the other person, who (usually) is not going through it, can’t.
“We had a built-in support system right off the bat.”
The couple has a daughter, Amanda, now 8, and say balancing her schedule and activities with their own schooling was complicated.
“We wanted her to have as positive an experience as she could have,” Todd says. “We knew that all three of us being full-time students was going to be challenging.”
So the couple tried to arrange their respective schedules so that they took most classes during the day, and “when it was time to pick (Amanda) up, we were done,” Todd says.
During their final year at seminary, they met with the Rev. Michael Sullivan, rector at St. John’s, for an interview.
Sullivan wanted the Vies to come to Lynchburg, so he offered Diane the job at St. John’s and told Todd about an opening that might be available at St. Paul’s. Both churches are part of the same diocese.
“I realized they both had great gifts for ministering, and they’d be a great fit for Lynchburg,” Sullivan says. “They bring a wealth of pastoral care experience, and a dedication to mission and outreach. And for the congregations here, those would be primary needs. So it’s just a great match.”
But before they could accept the jobs in Lynchburg, Todd and Diane, who graduated from seminary in May 2007, had to get approval from their bishop in Chicago.
“Usually, you go back to the diocese you came from,” Todd says.
Their bishop told them to look in Chicago first, but the positions in Lynchburg wound up being the best fit.
“They’re approachable, and they understand their roles … to preach the gospel in a way that others find accessible,” Sullivan says of the couple. “They have great senses of humor and are extraordinarily outgoing.”
After serving as deacons since their move to Lynchburg, Todd and Diane were ordained into the priesthood last month. The ceremony was held at St. Paul’s, and the post-ordination reception at St. John’s.
“Bringing the two churches together was amazing,” Todd says. “So many people said how wonderful it was.”
Sullivan says the couple’s love and support for each other was evident during the ceremony.
“It was one of the most beautiful services I have ever attended,” he says. “The music, the pomp and circumstance.
“Episcopal ordinations are a huge combination of ancient tradition and contemporary understanding. To see two priests ordained together is always special, but to see two who are a couple is extraordinary.”
Now that they’re both working full time, Todd and Diane say they face many of the same challenges they encountered while at seminary.
With regular services, pastoral care, the occasional night meeting and other duties, they’ve both got full plates and, like most working parents, are constantly trying to find a healthy balance between their home and work lives.
Their daughter usually takes turns attending each of their Sunday morning services.
“We really just say, ‘Where would you like to go this Sunday?’” Diane says.
But even with those challenges, the couple wouldn’t have it any other way.
“Truly serving God and serving people, and to be able to do that in a way that is so rewarding and feels so right, is a true gift,” says Diane.
Todd says he loves sharing a vocation with his wife.
“It’s an extraordinary experience,” he says. “It’s neat in that Diane can come home and say this thing happened, and I totally understand it. She can come in and be quiet, and I totally understand that. It is unusual for two people to connect in a spiritual way and a vocational way.”
17 December 2007
Priesthood (almost)

Tomorrow I will be ordained a priest in the Episcopal Church. This official process has taken 7 years, but I first started feeling a sense of call to this vocation nearly 30 years ago when I was about 8 years old ~I will say more about that in a later post. There is much I can say about the process, and I hope to do so, but at this point my mind turns to prayer, that I might be given the strength, wisdom and patience to live out this calling.
A prayer I love from the ordination service sends me into some reflection this evening:
O God of unchangeable power and eternal light: Look
favorably on your whole Church, that wonderful and sacred
mystery; by the effectual working of your providence, carry
out in tranquillity the plan of salvation; let the whole world
see and know that things which were cast down are being
raised up, and things which had grown old are being made
new, and that all things are being brought to their perfection
by him through whom all things were made, your Son Jesus
Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity
of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.
Amen.
As I have moved through the last week towards ordination I have re-read Archbishop Michael Ramsey's book, The Christian Priest Today, which is an excellent book, and offers much food for thought.
Also, I re-watched one of my favorite movies, The Mission, starring Robert DeNiro and Jeremy Irons (and Daniel Berrigan!)...watch a clip below for a taste of it, and then rent it!
Thank you for your prayers, your presence tomorrow, and for all those who have supported me along the way!
Peace and Blessings,
Peter
The Mission (excerpt)
28 October 2007
Approved for Ordination to the Priesthood


On Friday, I received a call on my cell phone while I was teaching a class of 3rd graders about Anglican Worship at Williamsbug during colonial times.
The substance of the call was that I was approved for ordination to the priesthood which was the final hurdle in a 6 year discernment process which included 3 years of parish work, 3 years of seminary, and the last few months as a transitional deacon. While I expected to be approved, strange things sometimes happen in these processes, so it is a great joy for me to move through to this step of the process and I rejoice. So, if you are in Philly on December 15th, come by the Philadelphia (Episcopal) Cathedral, and send along your prayers and good thoughts if you cannot be there.
Peace and blessings,
Peter
17 July 2007
Helpful Letter to the NYTimes Editor by Bishop Bruno
July 17, 2007
+Bruno writes the New York Times
The New York Times
To the editor:
I would like to clear some factual errors in the article by reporter Sharon Waxman, “Man of the Flesh to Man of the Cloth,” (Sunday July 15, Fashion and Style).
Mr. Ronald Boyer is not in any process for ordination in The Episcopal Church in the Diocese of Los Angeles. He has expressed an interest in ordained ministry, as do dozens of people every year. But the path to ordination is a long, careful, deliberate process, beginning with a discernment committee in the applicant’s own congregation, which over a period of time arrives at a prayerful recommendation as to whether or not to support the person’s application.Read the rest of the Letter to the Editor HERE.

